Are men really full of hatred and try extremely hard to be nice and civil?

I get a lot of men commenting in public about my lifestyle, I know men think its hot to see two women together, but its kind of cynical and weird how they give me so much attention. I have plenty of men in my life who I adore and love so much but there are also men who misuse their words and make me feel like I should not exist. Are men really battling good and evil within themselves?